No One Will Tell You

People supress their emotions for few reasons. Emotions can put you in a vulnerable place, and it is pretty normal to want to avoid expressing volunerabilities to others. Specialy, when worrying expressing some emotions may lead to get judge by others.

  Why loving America? America is a country that offers a lot. All we have to do is to take advantage of those opportunities. Sometimes I look at the issues that hold many people here down as monuments to the strength of Black will. Yes, but not in the way whites would probably define "proud". We are proud of this country because our race is a living example of how our government and its people can effect change. Currently Black women are the most educated by race and gender. When I came to America although very young but I had   promised myself to take advantage of all my opportunities. I also have known education is supposed to be one of my strengths  as black person. I have opportunities to get one vocational profession as an Ultrasound Vascular Technician, and two degrees one in Science the other in Healthcare administration. As I love to express myself silencely and share my lifestyle. I feel being a lifestyle blogger is another way to write blogs  ...

My point is to indentify your own personality first so that you can match it with the ambitions on relatively suitable degree. Rhythm and balance are always important. An addition, I  believe that being ambitious is what keeps one going. Imagine a ship leaving its harbour to reach nowhere! Ridiculous isn’t it? Life without an ambition isn’t much different from that ship: just flowing where the tide and winds of the world take you. How inert and boring would such life be! Having an ambition makes you a far-sighted person which, in fact, helps you overcome the current hurdles of life for you know this isn’t the end and you have to reach your goal. Being ambitious itself looks to be good. What isnt good about achieving or obtaining success. The bad can come when one considers what this does to the person, the people around them and the world we live in. Chasing ambitions is, belive me, the best part of someone’s life. Sheer Pleasure! You get to know and a decent idea of where you are ...

  Can we stop making "Mistake"? -------------------------------------------------------- First of all, no  one stops making mistakes because making mistakes is part of being human. If you’re not making mistakes you’re not pushing yourself and you’re not doing your best work. Well, I’ve made a good number of mistakes myself. Thus, have hurt myself as well as others unintentionally. Now, as I look back I do regret ‘em. But the assurance being I never did it purposefully. It all happened due to a lack of experience. And at the moment when we are committing a mistake, there is a voice at the back of our mind which whispers to us. How to Avoid Mistake? -------------------------------------- H owever, y ou can't yet. You have to make mistakes to get there.  T here are so many things that can kill the careers of good, hard-working  You can't yet. You have to make mistakes to get there. Consider Kirk in Star Trek V when Bones is trying to get him to let Sybok take his pain a...

  There are positive and negative Stress! --------------------------------------------------------------------- How to know it is positive? Positive stress  is a condition in which you are stressed about the good things going to happen. It helps you face what you have to face or fix what you have to fix. In the end, it can lead you to feelings of satisfaction and accomplishment, well-being and wholeness.  Positive stress tells you have no other option then succeeding and on the other hand negative stress gives you lot of tension and drifts you towards defeat. Positive stress is the kind that pushes you to do good things, in a way that doesn't necessarily make you freak. It's called "Eu-stress." Running for class president is an example of this kind of stress. Why  Positive Stress  create a sense motivation? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------  Positive stress can be looked at as that excitement you feel will some...

  How to recognize "nepotism" ? Nepotism in workplace is still very common in America. It is not great feeling when someone goes through that. It is understandable for someone to support loves ones.  As we know that b lood is always ticker than water. But, when  it is pattern for the company to favor their own people all the times over other employees.  Specially when other employees are way better qualified for a position and get passed over.   I’ve seen companies suffer because they keep their family member and best friend in the positions that they have no business being in.  And you want to be the right knight, trying to save the situation. Where   the growth is standing  for those qualified employees who get passed over?  However, I believe nepotism is  a heart and soul of any aspect of human life. As an organizational Manager and Entrepreneur  who is trying to be successful in my business this approach is very import...