No One Will Tell You

Last year I di not do much because of the pandemic. I am very adventuous. I love to travel. I always to go out every other weekend with my hubby. Also  every weekend with my friend/ Family member. I love hanging out with my sisters. We do different type activities. I did not go to any international trip since pandemic has started. I  love to stay home sometimes hanging out my little family. My son loves boiling. I like to take him to boil. I like to stay active and creative.. Staying active helps to be less depressed. Women put your heel get out the house instead of beeing depressed and stressed over things that worth less than your health.  Depression is a bad enemy for your wellbeing. Here some pictures for last year of what I did: Christmas dinner tablescape Just little Things we can do on valentine for love ones: For my last year birthday: Birthday celebration last year. Right after my birthday started my cleanser:  Refreshing decor's idea Easter decor

Birthday's Flowers from hubby M ❤ I take my birthday very seriously. I  appreciate the day that God brought me to this planet. Some of my family calls me birthdaylia. I started talking about it until the day of my birthday. My friends call me queen B.  I love to be treated like queen. I don't like to do anything in the house or going work on my birthday.  I always try to be prepared for my birtday.  On my birthday I do selfcare like going to spa, accupunture. I treat myself like a queen. I always think to be happy,  it is important to create our  own happiness. I  treat myself and others with class , respect, and elegance, in order for others to treat me the same. I usually buy two outfits to celebrate my birthday, not to mention getting my hair done. I go to my favorite restaurant like A French restaurant calls  Daniel restaurant in the City (Manhattan). Sometimes my hubby supprised me with a birthday party.  Last year because of the pandemi...

People supress their emotions for few reasons. Emotions can put you in a vulnerable place, and it is pretty normal to want to avoid expressing volunerabilities to others. Specialy, when worrying expressing some emotions may lead to get judge by others.

  Why loving America? America is a country that offers a lot. All we have to do is to take advantage of those opportunities. Sometimes I look at the issues that hold many people here down as monuments to the strength of Black will. Yes, but not in the way whites would probably define "proud". We are proud of this country because our race is a living example of how our government and its people can effect change. Currently Black women are the most educated by race and gender. When I came to America although very young but I had   promised myself to take advantage of all my opportunities. I also have known education is supposed to be one of my strengths  as black person. I have opportunities to get one vocational profession as an Ultrasound Vascular Technician, and two degrees one in Science the other in Healthcare administration. As I love to express myself silencely and share my lifestyle. I feel being a lifestyle blogger is another way to write blogs  ...

My point is to indentify your own personality first so that you can match it with the ambitions on relatively suitable degree. Rhythm and balance are always important. An addition, I  believe that being ambitious is what keeps one going. Imagine a ship leaving its harbour to reach nowhere! Ridiculous isn’t it? Life without an ambition isn’t much different from that ship: just flowing where the tide and winds of the world take you. How inert and boring would such life be! Having an ambition makes you a far-sighted person which, in fact, helps you overcome the current hurdles of life for you know this isn’t the end and you have to reach your goal. Being ambitious itself looks to be good. What isnt good about achieving or obtaining success. The bad can come when one considers what this does to the person, the people around them and the world we live in. Chasing ambitions is, belive me, the best part of someone’s life. Sheer Pleasure! You get to know and a decent idea of where you are ...

  Can we stop making "Mistake"? -------------------------------------------------------- First of all, no  one stops making mistakes because making mistakes is part of being human. If you’re not making mistakes you’re not pushing yourself and you’re not doing your best work. Well, I’ve made a good number of mistakes myself. Thus, have hurt myself as well as others unintentionally. Now, as I look back I do regret ‘em. But the assurance being I never did it purposefully. It all happened due to a lack of experience. And at the moment when we are committing a mistake, there is a voice at the back of our mind which whispers to us. How to Avoid Mistake? -------------------------------------- H owever, y ou can't yet. You have to make mistakes to get there.  T here are so many things that can kill the careers of good, hard-working  You can't yet. You have to make mistakes to get there. Consider Kirk in Star Trek V when Bones is trying to get him to let Sybok take his pain a...